~ Nadine Leighton ~
~ Ceremonies ~
~ Marriage Ceremony ~
Your marriage ceremony
should capture the essence of your relationship reflecting
your wishes, beliefs, expectations and personalities.
I will help you to create your own unique ceremony.
Or I can write one especially for you.
Once you have decided on your wedding
date, the next step is to contact me to check my availability.
I will then meet with you and detail the legal requirements
of getting married. You will need to provide documents
to confirm your age and current marital status. That
is, I will need to sight your original birth certificates
and, if either party has been previously married evidence
that the marriage has legally ended. The Notice of Intended
Marriage (NIM) will need to be completed and lodged
with myself at least one month and one day prior to
the date of your marriage.
Hopefully we will be able to meet face-to-face,
however if this is difficult we can communicate by telephone,
e-mail, or facsimile.
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After lodging your NIM and paying a deposit
I provide you with resource material including suggested ceremonies,
and numerous examples of readings, vows, ring and other special
ceremony words to assist us create your unique ceremony. You
may also want family members, children or friends to participate
in some special way in your ceremony, I have many examples
of how you can include these significant people.
It is important you feel comfortable with
your choice of Marriage Celebrant, confident that your ceremony
will be professionally conducted capturing your hopes and
wishes. As a trained Marriage Celebrant and a member of the
Australian Federation of Civil Celebrants and Australian Celebrations
Training I am committed to providing excellent, professional
service to ensure that your special day is memorable.
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Naming Ceremony ~
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Naming ceremonies can be conducted
to celebrate the birth and naming of a baby or to mark
and celebrate an occasion where a child, adolescent,
or adult has changed their name. Naming ceremonies are
also a good way to welcome adopted children or stepchildren
into the family.
A Naming Ceremony is an opportunity
to celebrate your happiness by formally naming and introducing
your child to family and friends.
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Naming ceremonies give parents, relatives,
and friends the opportunity to affirm their special relationship
with the child and declare their intention to support and
guide the child though life. It is also a time to appoint
godparents (also called mentors or guardians) and to acknowledge
the special relationship with older brothers or sisters and
grandparents.
Naming ceremonies can be conducted at a location
of your choice with the words and symbols you choose. The
words of the ceremony are chosen to reflect the reason for
the celebration and the values, feelings, expectations and
personalities of the parents, family and child. The ceremony
format and symbolic gestures incorporated are only limited
by your imagination. I have many examples to assist you make
your celebration unique and meaningful.
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Love Commitment Ceremony ~
A Commitment ceremony is a beautiful way
to formally declare your love for each other and publicly
celebrate the union that your two souls have already formed.
In general terms the commitment, ideals and
aspirations included in a Love Commitment Ceremony tend to
be the same as that of a wedding ceremony. The couple choose
the ceremony words, music and poetry, they may also like to
include symbolic gestures, such as an exchange of rings. The
ceremony has many similarities to a wedding but it is not
a legal marriage under the Marriage Act of 1961.
Love commitment ceremonies may be conducted
for same sex couples or for couples who can legally marry
but who choose not to. A Love Commitment Ceremony is an opportunity
for a couple to declare and celebrate their love and devotion
for each other in the presence of family and friends.
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Renewal of Vows / Anniversary Ceremony ~
A couple may decide to
hold a ceremony to renew their marriage vows for a number
of different reasons.
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Some want to declare their continuing
love for each other on an anniversary.
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Reaffirmation ceremonies are also
suitable for married couples who, after separation,
are reunited.
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For couples who have been through
a particularly difficult time, a renewal of vows
ceremony can be an act of hope and a new start for
the relationship; where regrets and mistakes are
formally left behind.
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Other couples renew their vows
publicly because they were married overseas/interstate
where their family and friends could not share the
joy of their wedding day with them.
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Some couples feel the need for
such a ceremony when their original wedding ceremony,
for one reason or another, does not hold the meaning
they desire.
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Depending on the reason for the renewal of
vows ceremony and the experiences of the couple a unique introduction
reflecting the views and feelings of the couple can be created
by the couple or I can write one especially for you.
The couple may wish to reaffirm the same
vows as they exchanged on their wedding day, or write new
vows that reflect the experiences and maturity of the relationship.
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Adolescence Ceremony ~
The coming of age is a significant life transition.
Celebrations can be for milestones such as:
- a physical transition from childhood to adulthood;
- the turning of 18 or 21 years of age;
- where a young adult moves out into rental accommodation;
or
- before a young person enters university.
Symbols and significant achievements of the
new adult’s childhood should be included in their ceremony.
An adolescence ceremony celebrates a young person transitioning
into adulthood while acknowledging the life experiences, values
and beliefs gained in childhood.
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Divorce / End of Relationship Ceremony ~
Ending a relationship can be a difficult
and emotional part of life.
A divorce ceremony can be conducted at the
time of receiving the divorce certificate or pre-empting the
formal divorce with a ceremony at time of separation. It can
be a positive means of ceremoniously closing the door on the
old, and with the support of family and friends, acknowledging
and celebrating the future.
Whether to draw closure to the old relationship
or to mark the start of a new beginning a unique ceremony
is written for each ceremony depending on the circumstances.
The ceremony can include the reclaiming a birth name where
one party has taken on the other’s surname.
The ceremony can be held with one party present;
or both parties where they can honour the time spent each
other and then consent to the other moving on with their life
to find new relationships. The purpose of a ceremony is to
heal hearts, to forgive, celebrate the past, to reinforce
positive attitudes, and, most importantly, to focus on the
future.
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Housewarming Blessings ~
The acquisition of a new home is celebrated
with a housewarming. A housewarming ceremony is a beautiful
way to affirm your ‘house’ has become your ‘home’.
The ceremony will imprint your energy upon the sacred space
in the home. It can be conducted at the beginning of the celebration
then lead into the housewarming party with your friends and
family.
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Pet Funerals ~
Our bond with a pet can be just as great
as for a person. A pet can be a cornerstone of a family, or
a soul mate for an individual, sometimes both. Accordingly,
we may grieve deeply for the loss of a pet as we do when a
loved one passes.
A professional conducted funeral for your
pet provides an opportunity for you and your family to reflect
on what he or she meant to each of you, and to say goodbye
in a fitting manner.
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Boat Naming ~
The purchase of a boat is a significant one
for the owners. A Boat Naming can be conducted for a new boat
that has not yet been named or where the new owners wish to
rename a boat. The event is celebrated by naming the vessel
in honour of the family who own it and who will spend many
pleasurable hours being transported on many exciting adventures
into the future. A boat naming is an important date in the
history for its owners.
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